Well, Inter-net (and wedding guests,) save your recoils of horror -- I bought a wedding dress and, as such, won't have to walk down the aisle in my bare glory.
The whole process of finding a dress, for me, was actually more of a chore than some fun treat. The attention, the over-attentive-yet-barely-interested salespeople, the research and going to multiple stores, all made me feel uncomfortable. I hate insincerity in any form.
Of course, "the wedding industry" makes a gal feel like she should get a certain reaction to 'the one' -- cry, and spend thousands of dollars on her cupcake princess dress. For a more well worded account of the trials and tribulations I am alluding to, see Grace Bonney's (of DesignSponge) post for MSW. Actually, for realistic brides-to-be, I think all of her posts are great, for reassurance of sanity if anything.
Now, I told Mark that I'm transferring the pressure cooking onto him, and that we need to start looking for his suit. With the whole 'farmhouse shabby chic' sorta theme we want to have going on, I thought this might be good inspiration (I particularly would love to see him in the hat):
This model gives my intended a run for his milky Irish skin's money, plus the cane and leather gloves would allow him to blundgeon and/or strangle any wedding crashers without leaving pesky evidence which could interrupt our honeymoon with a police inquiry.
So really, Mark's suit is up to him, buuuut I did find some smashing ties on Etsy for the men of the wedding party (including ushers):

Ok, no one can deny that these ties are as bad ass as a Scorpion tattoo:

This one could be for Dad-orelli:
Now that I found The One, The Dress, and we decided on The Date, The Venue, and The Photographer, we're taking the (long) weekend off to go to a Valentine's Day wedding in Albany. I am pleasantly looking forward to driving our new car out, and having no expectations placed on me except to eat, drink, smooch my sweetie, and dress up a bit.
Have a lovey dovey Valentine's Day!
(And Mark, just in case you're wondering about the perfecto gift for you loving girl this year)
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